ICAN Associates

ICAN Associates is a private, non-profit corporation that works in partnership with ICAN. Its Board of Directors consists of business, media and community leaders. This organization addresses the important issues identified by ICAN through the provision of services and materials, including the sponsorship and coordination of media campaigns, community educational forums and projects, special events, newsletters and funding. Further, ICAN Associates provides support for direct and indirect services to prevent child abuse and enables integration and collaboration among child service agencies.

This strong, multi-level, multidisciplinary and community network provides a framework through which ICAN is able to identify those issues critical to the well-being of children and families. With limited resources available, ICAN develops strategies to implement programs that will improve the community’s collective ability to meet the needs of abused, neglected and at-risk children. The work of ICAN has received national recognition as a model for inter-agency coordination for the protection of children. In 1996, ICAN was designated as the National Center on Child Fatality Review (ICAN/NCFR).

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Lindsay Wagner, best known for her Emmy award winning role as The Bionic Woman, has over 40 TV movies and 12 feature films to her name. For four decades, while working as one of the nation’s most popular television and screen actors, starring in films such as The Paper Chase, Shattered Dreams, The Taking of Flight 846, and A Child’s Cry, Lindsay was also pursuing vigorous studies in holistic healing modalities, integrating mind, body and spirit. Throughout her career, Lindsay has worked in advocacy and public education in the areas of human rights, family violence, animal welfare, and the environment, with organizations such as ICAN (Inter Agency Council on Child Abuse and Neglect) and Teen Talking Circles. Lindsay is passionate about awakening human potential and has combined 45 years of experience and study of Western and Eastern modalities to develop her “Quiet the Mind & Open the Heart” experiential workshops and retreats for the public and special interest groups, sharing techniques and realizations that have greatly impacted her life, inspiring others to realize how amazing they truly are. Lindsay has presented her programs in the US, Canada, Mexico, Europe and the Caribbean, working with world owned organizations such as the UK National Health Service, Saint Lucia Tourist Board, Kalani Eco community in Hawaii and the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York. Lindsay has co-authored two books—a best-selling vegetarian lifestyle cookbook, The High Road to Health, and Lindsay Wagner’s New Beauty: The Acupressure Facelift, and has released a meditation CD, Open To Oneness.



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Deanne Tilton Durfee is Executive Director of the Los Angeles County Inter-Agency Council on Child Abuse and Neglect (ICAN). ICAN is one of the largest county-based child abuse councils in the Country. She also developed ICAN Associates, a private non-profit charity comprised of corporate and media representatives. This partnership promotes the development and networking of comprehensive multi-disciplinary and community-based child abuse programs. She served as a Child Welfare Worker, a Juvenile Court Liaison Supervisor, a Supervising Children's Services Worker, and a Regional Services Administrator before being selected to administer ICAN. In 1996, ICAN was designated the National Center on Child Fatality Review. She served from 1984-1990 as a member of the Board of Directors of the National Committee for Prevention of Child Abuse (NCPCA). She also served as a Commissioner on the California Attorney General's Commission on the Enforcement of Child Abuse Laws. From June 1, 1985 to May 31, 1986, Ms. Tilton served as a Federal Commissioner on the U.S. Attorney General's Commission on Pornography, Chairing the Committee on Child Pornography. In January, 1987 she was appointed by the Governor to the California Child Victim Witness Judicial Advisory Committee. In 1989, she was appointed by the Secretary of Health and Human Services to the U.S. Advisory Board on Child Abuse and Neglect. In 1993, she was elected Chairperson of the Advisory Board. She previously served as a member of the California Children’s Justice Act Task Force and the California State Child Death Review Council. In October 2011, she became a member of the Attorney General’s National Task Force on Children Exposed to Violence. She currently serves as a Commissioner on the First 5 LA Commission on Children and Families. She holds a Doctorate in Humanities, honoris causa, from the Chicago School of Professional Psychology.




For over thirty years, Paul Mones has been a leading nationwide advocate for victims of child sexual abuse, representing hundreds of people who had been sexually abused as children by their Boy Scout leaders, priests, ministers, coaches, employers, teachers, guidance counselors as well as by their parents and guardians. He has been at the forefront of representing Boy Scout victims of sexual abuse. In 2010 he and his co-counsel obtained the largest verdict ever against the Boy Scouts of America – $19.9 million – against the Boy Scouts of America. The trial represented the first time that the Boy Scouts’ ‘Perversion Files’ – confidential files maintained by the BSA on pedophiles – were admitted into evidence. The perversion files were finally publicly released in 2012 to national and international news coverage. Paul has also represented numerous victims of Catholic clergy abuse throughout the nation. In 2000, he and his co-counsel tried the first sexual abuse case to a jury against the Archdiocese of New York (the case settled during trial).In 2007, he and his co-counsel obtained an $11.45 million jury verdict against the Diocese of Rockville Centre in New York on behalf of two victims –the largest verdict rendered against a Diocese in New York. Over the course of his career, Paul has obtained millions of dollars in verdicts and settlements for clients all over the nation. Although every case is different and past results therefore do not guarantee success in any particular case, these kinds of results do reflect Paul’s hard work and dedication to his clients.




Justin Chambers is a child abuse and prevention advocate for ICAN. He has donated his time and dedication to ICAN conferences for four years. Besides being an advocate for children, Justin is most known for his role as Dr. Alex Karev on the ABC hit show Grey’s Anatomy, where he plays a pediatrician dedicated to the health and survival of children. Justin’s character is a favorite among the Grey’s Anatomy viewers. In 2017, he received the Best TV Network Drama Actor Award at the People’s Choice Awards. Justin’s acting career is vast, starring in numerous other television and films including The Wedding planner in 2001 with Jennifer Lopez. Justin’s dedication to children through his charity work, and on screen, flows into his personal life where he is a dedicated husband and father to five children.




A star on both the silver and small screens, including the Academy Award-winning film THE ARTIST, NBC’s iconic daytime series “Days of Our Lives,” ABC’s “General Hospital,” and a regular leading lady on the Hallmark Channel, actress/singer/philanthropist Jen Lilley has tackled countless roles throughout her illustrious career. Jen Lilley’s creative prowess does not end when the director yells cut, she is also a singer and songwriter. Lilley balances her day job with her lifelong passion of 1960’s girl groups to create a collection of timeless songs that is set to have a whole new generation singing along. Her music exudes the same sultry ferocity of Twiggy and Jean Shrimpton, with Phil Spector’s wall of sound treatment via Rosie Danvers and her 50-piece orchestra. When Jen Lilley is not busy in front of a camera, or perfecting her vocals in a studio, she can be found working with various charities and spending time with her new baby and adopted children and husband. Jen has even garnered the National Educators Award for her work in Guatemala.



Investment Art Locator

Elaine Trebek-Kares is a Los Angeles business entrepreneur who co-founded ICAN associates in 1978 to help raise funds from the public to better the lives and lessen the trauma of abused Children. ICAN Associates goal is to develop programs to help combat abuse and neglect by understanding, supervising and uniting high risk families.  She is now is retired and lives with her husband Peter Kares in Los Angeles.



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Child advocate who has supported ICAN and ICAN Associates for many years.


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Beverly Kurtz has been working alongside ICAN Associates in hosting the Student Poster Art Contest which is held every year during Child Abuse Prevention Month. The ICAN/ICAN Associates Child Abuse Prevention Month Poster Contest focuses on the health and well-being of children and provides a comfortable forum for discussion in the classroom. This contest emphasizes the importance of child abuse prevention and gives children the ability to convey it to others through their art. Physical and emotional abuse can be reduced with education and awareness and the ICAN/ ICAN Associates Poster Contest is a public awareness campaign that addresses this critical need for protecting and educating our children.



Lilly Lieu is the owner and principal of the Accounting Office of Lilly Lieu, a full service accounting firm. She provides services to a multitude of clients, including high net worth individuals, medium and small businesses, as well as nonprofit organizations. She has more than 28 years of broad experience in the areas of finance, tax, business and management advice for her clients. She earned her Bachelor of Science degree in Finance from California State University at Northridge. While in college, Lilly also worked full time for a large regional accounting firm which specialized in forensic accounting. Following graduation, Lilly started her own accounting practice. Her first group of clients included several VIP, high net worth individuals who were referred to her by a senior partner at the Price Waterhouse accounting firm. She provided comprehensive tax and bookkeeping services, including business management for these clients. Lilly is dedicated to helping her clients achieve business success by providing sound tax and financial advice. She is committed to delivering tax and financial services that meets the needs and objectives of each individual client. She has the singular ability to resolve existing tax and financial issues for her clients by recommending and implementing practical solutions. Asset protection and value preservation are primary objectives of high net worth individuals and their families. Navigating the increasingly complex tax environment, structuring transactions that result in the proper ownership of asset holdings and ensuring that assets are protected are objectives that Lilly has achieved for her clients over the years. Her aim is to provide the advice and guidance necessary to help her clients mitigate risk and help them achieve their financial goals. Lilly is affiliated with The National Society of Accountants, The National Society of Tax Professionals and is a member of the California Tax Education Council. Lilly fell in love with nonprofits when she was a teenager. Inspired by working several summers as a volunteer youth camp counselor and coordinator with the YWCA and YMCA, Lilly developed a deep passion for charitable work. She is active in several church organizations and serves on several nonprofit boards. Lilly is the proud mother of three adult sons who played club travel ice hockey from an early age. She continues to be active in youth ice hockey in Southern California and was a volunteer for more than 15 years with the Pasadena Maple Leafs youth hockey team, including serving as the club President, Treasurer and Board Member.



Judge Mary Thornton House retired from the Los Angeles Superior Court in September 2018 after serving for 22 years.  Prior to that, she was an Assistant City Attorney and civil litigator for the City of Los Angeles where she also was a member of ICAN for many years. She has started her third legal career as a private neutral for Alternative Resolution Centers (ARC). In retirement, she  has also authored Thomson Reuter’s California Civil Jury Instructions Companion Handbook Judge House has been honored throughout her career by many organizations. In 2004, Los Angeles County honored her as one of its ‘Women of the Year’ and named Judge of the Year by the Pasadena Bar Association.  In 2008, the California Judges Association awarded her the Bernard F. Jefferson’s Award for Excellence in Judicial Education. In 2011, the San Fernando Valley Bar Association awarded her the Excellence in Judicial Administration award for her leadership in getting California’s Expedited Jury Trials legislation passed, the development of the current universal judgment form, and simplification of small claims pleadings.  In 2013, the San Fernando Valley Bar Association named her their Judge of the Year. Judge House was Dean of the California B.E. Witkin Judicial College which provides for education of all judicial officers in California. The college is a nationally recognized institution and exemplar for judicial education where she has been an instructor and seminar leader since 1997.  In 2007, Yale Law School selected her to teach at their China Law Center in Beijing, China, courses on small claims and limited civil procedures to selected judges from throughout China. Judge House graduated from UCLA and received her Juris Doctorate from the University of San Diego.  During that time, she worked her way through school by playing her viola at local concert venues.  She continues to play with the Pasadena Community Orchestra.